Ladies get ready!


Desperation is not love……Nothing makes a woman less attractive like chasing a guy (now I don’t mean that making calculated moves on a guy that you love is wrong but I will teach that next time). It’s a huge turn off! Men hate it, I mean genuine men. Fake men may like you because you are at their beck and call. If they say jump, you ask, “how high?” Stripping you naked is very easy for them and having sex with you is something they find very easy to achieve. You can’t say no because you are the one chasing them and the fear of losing them made you have so many abortions you lost count.

No matter how madly you are in love with a guy, never show it, it cheapens you and gives the guy an edge. He can order you around, snob you, turn you into his slave and make fun of you, he will eventually dump you because he doesn’t really value you.
Men like to chase the woman they admire, I mean REAL MEN. Some lazy guys don’t like to find their wives. They have low self esteem and are too timid to approach a woman and marry her properly. These are not men, they are babies in trousers! I’m not talking about them.

Don’t chase a man! Let him find you, chase you, date you, propose to you and marry you, it’s your pride.
Some ladies are too desperate. They are the ones who walk up to a guy, greet him, take him out, show him all their “wifely qualities”, visit him, take him to lunch, start and end conversations, chat him up on all available social media, be quick to sleep with him and wonders why he dumps them. You are choking him! You’ve given him too much before he realizes what to do with you and you loses your appeal. All real men want something they fight for, something that costs them a great deal not something cheap thrown on their laps for free.

Women also don’t respect desperate men( an intelligent woman when been approach by two guys, she always pick the one that is not rushing things) it turns them off. They like a man who is calm, cool, collected, well calculated, highly intelligent, rational, mysterious, enigmatic, deep, friendly yet not too forward, reserved yet not stand offish, shows interest yet not too available, busy, focused, stable, disciplined, God fearing, mature and sensible. A desperate man is the opposite of the qualities listed above.

Listen ladies, even if God shows you loud and clear he is the man you are to marry, until he hears God himself and propose, don’t give him any signal, that is desperation! Both Quran and Bible says “He that find a wife…” let him find you.

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